This week we saw how complicated it can be to share condolences on Facebook. After the actor Paul Walker and his friend died in a horrible car crash celebrities, fans and media agencies expressed their feelings on social media channels like Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.
Three posts became Top Posts due to the amount of comments, likes and shares they generated.
It is with a truly heavy heart that we must confirm that Paul Walker passed away today in a tragic car accident while attending a charity event for his organization Reach Out Worldwide. He was a passenger in a friend’s car, in which both lost their lives. We appreciate your patience as we too are stunned and saddened beyond belief by this news. Thank you for keeping his family and friends in yo…
TMZ is reporting that Fast and Furious star Paul Walker has died in a freak car crash in Santa Clarita, California — http://bit.ly/1cT2FjsLeave your thoughts and condolences for his family.
Breaks my heart
Obviously, nowadays a “like” underneath a sad post doesn’t mean “i like it” it also means “i share your feelings”. Sometimes the page itself recommends a behavior like this as seen in the Top Posts as well:
14 year old Bianca Valdez has been identified as 1 of 3 pedestrians hit and killed by cars in separate incidents over the past 3 days in San Jose. Bianca was a freshman at James Lick High School and was pronounced deceased at the hospital Sunday night. Leave a comment with your condolences, and if you hit “like” we’ll assume it means you are showing support for her family and friends. Our hea…
How to share condolences on Facebook
But what happens if a friend or colleague looses a beloved one? Is it appropriate to share condolences on Facebook?
What you have to know:
- Rule No. 1: On social media sites you should only offer your condolences if the person has acknowledged the situation, or how he or she is feeling. You should never be the one who announces to the world that the person has just experienced a loss.
- Rule No. 2: If the person knows you’re on Facebook a lot and you and the person communicating a lot on Facebook you should react somehow. Either you simply join the masses of other people who posted “I am sorry for your loss”. But if you are closer with the person that is not enough. At least a private message, an email or a text is appropriate to show sympathy.
- Rule No. 3: When someone posts on Facebook that they have lost of a loved one, you should never delve into more detail than what has been already provided by the person posting.
- Rule No. 4: If you decide to use Facebook, simply express condolences or share a memory. Do not discuss circumstances of the death.
- Rule No. 5: Keep your religious beliefs to yourself unless you are sure that the person you are trying to comfort shares them. What’s always okay: say that you will keep the family in your prayers.
And here are the sad and happy, funny and interesting Top Posts of last week.
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Thank your best friend for sharing crazy ideas today!
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Only a week old and this video led by Russian dance choreographer & instructor Elena Fraules has spread all over the internet giving ‘twerking’ a new name!Enjoy & Share :)Spot Me, Girl | Instagram: spotmegirl
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UNDYING LOVE: South Carolina man, 78, wears sandwich board to help wife of 57 years in search for life-saving kidney. She was born with only one kidney, and late this summer, it was failing. Her husband wasn’t a match. This exposure actually got them the media attention needed and they found a match. Lets give this beautiful man one heart in each comment. <3
Breaking:Supreme Court will take up a consolidated case against the HHS contraception and abortifacient mandate, including the challenge brought by Hobby Lobby. At stake is the meaning of religious liberty in America. Will the expansive vision of religious liberty wrought by the Founders prevail, or will a new, weaker “freedom of worship” take its place?Oral arguments are likely to be h…
Hit ‘LIKE’ and answer the question below for your chance to win Day 1 of our “My Dream Ho-ho-home” competition!If you look for property using a mobile device, what is the main reason you do so?a. It’s quickerb. It’s easierc. I do pretty much everything on my mobile device these daysd. I don’t look for property on my mobile deviceAnswer now for your chance to win today’s prize: A festi…
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**WIN A $100 VISA GIFT CARD!!!!!**WE ARE GIVING AWAY TWO $100 VISA GIFT CARDS! With Black Friday coming right up, we thought it would be nice to give you a chance to have a little extra cash. To enter LIKE this post and “COMMENT below letting us know where you will be using your AFCU Debit/Credit card on Black Friday!”We will choose the winners through a random drawing of entrants on Tues…
Happy #Thanksgiving to our American fans! While you’re giving thanks, take a moment to give back. We’ve made it easy to find great causes and we’ll even match your donation. Visit www.caregrows.com
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With exactly 4 weeks to go until the big day, we wouldn’t mind Father Christmas leaving the New Peugeot RCZ R under our tree… “LIKE” if you agree!
John and Dorian have a plan! Almost Human is all-new TONIGHT at 8/7c, on FOX!
Here’s the first question to kick off our fantastic daily December wine giveaway.”Two bottles of VR Pinot Grigio dashing through the snow” name the famous Christmas Carol to wine a case of wineAnswer in the comments below, to read the full T&Cs click here http://on.fb.me/Iz5Qn5
Lincraft’s 12 Days of Christmas has begun! Simply LIKE this post and COMMENT below telling us why you want to WIN for your chance to snare a Brother Sewing Machine worth $499!
How about 34 points to win the game for #34’s birthday today? Happy birthday, Bo Jackson! War Eagle!
JUST 30 HOURS UNTIL WE CHOOSE A WINNER for our winter CONTEST! Enter for a chance to win a night at the Holman Grand Hotel, The Confederation Court Mall spending $$, tickets to Wake up Santa and a Confederation Bridge 15 pass! Like the Charlottetown PEI by Discover Charlottetown page and share this image publicly from our page for a chance to win! Contest closes on November 28th at 4PM AST. GOO…
We’re getting in the festive spirit and giving away a case of Christmas Ale!Enter the competition at http://bit.ly/1aSkuzH
It’s a FLASH Free Pizza Friday special for #BlackFriday! Just like or share this post, and we’ll select 10 winners of a FREE large one topping pizza at 9pm!But the fun doesn’t stop tonight…stay tuned, friends.
Happy Tuesday!
See how you can help drive Planned Parenthood out of the abortion business and save the lives of preborn babies. http://alln.cc/GivingTuesdayADF – SHARE”LIKE” & Comment “YES” if an innocent life is worth defending. No matter the cost.
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LIKE if you are fishing instead of shopping this morning
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WARNING: Please do not respond to any Facebook messages inviting you to claim a “Free £500 ASDA Voucher”. This is nothing to do with us and may be an attempt to capture your personal information. Please warn your friends.
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Next Thursday, prepare to fall in love with The Sound Of Music Live!
If you agree, give this a thumbs up!
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Society & Religion
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Interesting historical fact of the day: what’s in a picture?First, here is a history lesson on Afghanistan. From 1933 until 1973, Afghanistan was ruled under a man named Mohammed Zahir Shah. While he was a devout Muslim, he had a Western education in France. His reign marked four decades of peace and stability. With the introduction of a constitution Afghanistan progressively developed into a…
Minnesota Judge has 200 blunt words for divorcing parents.
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Princess shares: “Well this is my beautiful family. My boyfriend is from Sudan, Africa and I am Laotian(Asian). We had our handsome baby boy on May 14, 2013! My family did not approve of him until our baby was born and then they learned how to accept him. He’s a wonderful & caring father! Not to mention, we have know each other since 5th grade. What a surprise ? Lol.. “
Preparing for night patrols on the harbor – WAY better than watching reruns on the sofa.
No matter what’s happening, choose to be happy. Don’t focus on what’s wrong. Find something positive in your life. Thank God for the small things.
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HIGH FIVE!! Indonesian airline Garuda has joined several other airlines around the world in refusing to transport shark fins on its flights.You might be surprised to hear that shark finning at sea is still legal in New Zealand of all places! The good news is, a ban could soon be put in place. Show your support: https://www.greenpeace.org.au/action/?cid=49&src=FB1&fbgpapGaruda
Britain is full close the borders now
13-year-old Duncan McAlphine Sennett used his Bar Mitzvah speech as a chance to talk about why the freedom to marry for same-sex couples is so important. Click “like” to thank him for speaking out, and don’t miss video of his speech: http://bit.ly/1b6P09l
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It is with a truly heavy heart that we must confirm that Paul Walker passed away today in a tragic car accident while attending a charity event for his organization Reach Out Worldwide. He was a passenger in a friend’s car, in which both lost their lives. We appreciate your patience as we too are stunned and saddened beyond belief by this news. Thank you for keeping his family and friends in yo…
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Remember that baby we posted, We found her mother
And now to something completely different.. “I’m Thinking About Doing Some Shows Again, Even With #Genesis” Like and share ? 😉
The love of my life said “yes” today! I am so thankful for Brittany and I as we start this exciting new journey together! Happy Thanksgiving!!
Happy Turkey Day from my fam to urs! Thankful 4 fam, friends! Fans and being loved. God is so good!
When stores like Wal-Mart move their Black Friday sales to Thanksgiving Day, they truly have forgotten the purpose of the holiday–and cynically ask their employees to leave their loved ones, too. Stay with your families on Thursday, friends. Cook and eat together. Watch a football game or a family movie. Call your relatives. Don’t waste your precious day off standing in lines or fighting cro…
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Hot fire, a cold beer and a good dog. You can’t beat this with a stick!
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News & Media
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A huge congratulations to Mary Coustas, who has given birth to a baby girl, Jamie Betis, after a long and heartbreaking struggle to have children.
Costco, Nordstrom, B.J.’s and a few other stores are refusing to open on Thanksgiving Day so employees can enjoy the day with family. http://bit.ly/17WjGvEDo you LIKE that idea?
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14 year old Bianca Valdez has been identified as 1 of 3 pedestrians hit and killed by cars in separate incidents over the past 3 days in San Jose. Bianca was a freshman at James Lick High School and was pronounced deceased at the hospital Sunday night. Leave a comment with your condolences, and if you hit “like” we’ll assume it means you are showing support for her family and friends. Our hea…
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Give this adorable little girl thousands of LIKES! Cyia, who was born deaf, will hear for the first time on her birthday this week. Cochlear implants will be activated tomorrow at Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh.Story: http://www.wpxi.com/news/news/local/greene-co-girl-will-hear-first-time-her-birthday/nb4cP/
Best thanksgiving ever. God bless our men and women serving overseas today (and every day).
Yep, that’s my reality! Have a fab Friday friends! ~ TD
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Happy Thanksgiving from Purina!
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#Boots Pick Your Favorite!!! #FASHION #shoes
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Happy Birthday to Mr. Jaco Pastorius (R.I.P) !!!
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When you are trying to win…
TMZ is reporting that Fast and Furious star Paul Walker has died in a freak car crash in Santa Clarita, California — http://bit.ly/1cT2FjsLeave your thoughts and condolences for his family.
Lol this had me cracking up! So far my son is none!! Which one is your LO?? – Angie*
Rest in Peace
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This is the chin and chesty of happiness 🙂
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